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If there were balance in the world
Then l would wish you joy
Proportionate to my pain.
May your joy be all-consuming and overpowering.

And may your heart expand
By the pieces hollowed out from mine
By my salty tears.

As you lie awake feasting
On the dreams of your future,
Drink deeply from the wine crushed from the fruit of mine.


Natalie Simmons 2020

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